Saturday, May 10, 2014

My take on: Disruptions: More Connected, Yet More Alone

This essay was written in response to an article based on the following video by Charlene deGuzman entitled “I Forgot My Phone.”  You can view the video below and read the article at Disruptions: More Connected, Yet More Alone.

Nick Bilton’s article, Disruptions: More Connected, Yet More Alone, from the September 1, 2013, New York Times’ blog “BITS,” although humorous, may have drawn the wrong conclusion.  The article is an analysis of a humorous, yet cynical, video about how technology has actually disconnected us.  It's a leap to assume that because millions of people watched the video, they are somehow contemplating a change in behavior.  To the contrary, most likely those watching saw themselves in one or more roles portrayed.  They are alright with viewing their life through a smart-phone.  For some, it’s the only life they have ever known.  The video actually shows the culmination of a world obsessed with technology.  Despite Nick Bilton’s assertion that this may be a moment of epiphany, it is unlikely there will be a revolt.  The real issue is much deeper than our technology.  Our technology only enables our society to become more self-centered; thus less caring for one another.
There has always been some form of technology, designed to bring the world closer, which has instead separated us.  Mr. Bilton’s example of a few concert promoters and their performers urging fans not to be distracted, but instead enjoy the show, is the same urging of decades ago.  While I agree that the point is to enjoy the show, there have always been people who would rather view it through a lens.  Before the smart-phone, it was digital and video cameras that separated the people from the performers.  The convenience of smart-phones has only enabled more people to partake in this separation.  It is this evolution of technology that has facilitated the acceptance of estrangement of our fellow man.
Furthermore, Mr. Bilton’s comparison to technology that predates the smart-phone exemplifies the progression of this separation.  The introduction of the television was a technological milestone, which like the smart-phone, promised to bring us together.  On the surface, the television was viewed much like the technology that proceeded it.  Families would gather together around the radio after dinner.  The facts regarding the impact of the television that Mr. Bilton cited are inconsistent with the reality of the impact.  While it is true that most families at first shunned watching television during dinner, it eventually became commonplace.  Interaction between family members via conversation gave way to a one-way conversation with the boob tube.  In its infancy, the television was not as widely available as the smart-phone is today; however, it had a similar effect.  Even though a few sounded the warning bell early in television’s existence, there was no revolution.  The sets remained on.  The same will continue to be true for the smart-phone.


There is more than the technology of smart-phones separating us from one another.  We live in a world full of lonely people who have not developed the skills to relate to others.  Hiding in the isolation of the small screen of a smart-phone is safe.  It’s easier than becoming vulnerable and speaking kind words to one another.  Our society loves the warm fuzzy feeling that technology brings more than we love each other.  The revelation that leads to a revolt against technology, such as smart-phones, will take more than a clever video.  It will take a return to the core values that caused families to care for one another and for their neighbors.  Our own selfishness has allowed this invasion of technology to make us numb to its effects.  There will be no revolution against the smart-phone until we love our neighbors more than ourselves.




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